it also depends on what kind of life you prefer. You're currently close to or in NYC. San Francisco is one of the most beautiful cities on the planet. awesome victorian houses, tons of theatre, the best chinatown EVER.
that being said, your headspace is completely understandable. I had the very serious option of going to college there. for not very much money. I opted to stay here because I love this state, and the best place for me to figure things out was home, not my parents house, but in my home.
so good luck. I hope all of this helps!
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OOG: Paige C.