New guy to Knight Realms

say i have the patch armor skill from a warrior does that count??? also i can get armor imbued to its maximum allowance how do i find that out in game etc... i really want as much info about that subject as i can

There is usually a very obvious forge area set up in game.  Asking other characters if they know where Smiths can be found will usually get you pointed in the right direction

Under the New Players section & welcome page, you'll see an entry that says that for your first event, you will be given cards for all your armor, weapons, shields, & other items that can/will be used In-Game (IG).  That section will also cover how your weapons, armor & items will be looked over for safety & IG value/points.  I highly recommend you read that area as it will take care of most of your concerns I think.