LADIES PLEASE READ (responses requested): Now that I think about it...

I'd like to point out that while I am a melee class, I play defensively. I also wear a wig, which can be a large concern, and fight in a Moresca bodice. The trick is to not put yourself in situations that you feel uncomfortable in. Yes there are many men larger, taller, and much stronger than myself, but I get in there and fight when I can. It can be a rewarding experience!

As far as NPCing goes, you're there for the players enjoyment, not your own, but the bruises and dirt can be well worth it! 

NO,

but I usually NPC two shifts to get my combat on.

Amira might be a delicate flower dancer, one hit wonder, but Reona likes to hit things and did kendo for a couple of years along with tae kwon do and wrestling.

Not playing a fighter class has to do with the role play challenge i set up for myself as well as the impracticality of schlepping armor and weapons on public transit and not taking up a lot of baggage space in the cars of people who are so lovely as to offer me rides.

<<My alt might be able to fight...I just don't tell! >>

If by fighting you mean  pouring absinthe on your opponent until she drowns...

I play an Archer primarily, but have no problem with Melee combat. 

yes yes, if i couldn't polearm things at larp at least every once in a while i wouldn't have much fun

No but thats because of the character. I've only been to a few events and the alt event showed me that combat is fun! Next character I play will most likely be combat effective.